The life of a big busted webgirl……

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It has cooled down nicely.  It didn’t get nearly as hot as it did yesterday.  Yesterday we got up to 100degrees and today about 87….so much better. And it didn’t last, it started to cool down around 6pm.  Yesterday it was getting hotter at that time…icks.

The clouds moved in and it started to rumbled.  But since it was finally nice, I went for a walk which meant of course that it started to rain.  On the way back there was a huge clap of thunder.  Next thing I know my hubby was calling me to make sure I was on the way home.  I just heard it, but he saw the lightening.  I felt perfectly safe and not worried, but some folks south of us got hit :  Two men struck by lightning while standing under trees in Damascus =(

We got through this heat a lot better then last time.  But we were better prepared…we had our 2 fans and got air moving, then spent the hottest part of the day downstairs.  That was a pain, because I can do some work but the work that I needed to do is a hard to do down there…..I need my desk and chair, a proper set up.

Tomorrow and the next day will be nothing but focus on work…..icks.

Bizarre origins of wedding traditions

Talk about your runaway brides — the original duty of a “Best Man” was to serve as armed backup for the groom in case he had to resort to kidnapping his intended bride away from disapproving parents. The “best” part of that title refers to his skill with a sword, should the need arise. (You wouldn’t want to take the “just okay” member of your weapon-wielding posse with you to steal yourself a wife, would you?)

The best man stands guard next to the groom right up through the exchange of vows (and later, outside the newlyweds’ bedroom door), just in case anyone should attack or if a non-acquiescent bride should try to make a run for it.

It’s said that feisty groups like the Huns, Goths and Visigoths took so many brides by force that they kept a cache of weapons stored beneath the floorboards of churches for convenience.

**That is kind of whacked.  I’m so glad that the meaning of the best man as changed…..

This are pictures that we took while at Powell Butte I think nearly all  of them are Torn’s work, I’ve put the our pictures together and have lost track.

Mt St. Helen’s 1

A Daisy Field 1

Mt Adams 1

**Hiding in the background.

Mt Hood Through a Field of Grass

**I really like how Torn took this one.

A Daisy Field 2

Mt Hood 1

Meadow 1

Mt Hood Zoomed In

Mt Jefferson Peeking Out

A Young Buck with Velvet Antlers

Wooded Area 1

Self Portrait Powell Butte

Meadow & Mt Hood

How can you not fall in love with this scenery?  And we are just addicted of trying to get that perfect picture of Mt Hood.

Meadow & Mt Hood

Cams Update

28 June, 2008

Current Mood: Annoyed emoticon Annoyed & Frustrated emoticon Frustrated

Just want to let everyone know, that yes we do know that our house cams in the bedroom/shower is down.

We have been fighting it for the last few days.  For some reason we can get that damn laptop to say it is hooked to the network but the damn thing won’t hook to the internet in that room.  I know it isn’t the pc because I was able to get it online with a direct hookup from the router.  But I can’t even get it to hook up to the internet with the wireless.

I am straight up pissed off about it.  With the heat and this added frustration, I’m trying to avoid that damn thing because I’m about to take a hammer to it.

So the only good thing about the heat, is that you will see us downstairs in the living room for the next few days.

Neighborhood Trail 2

A Friend

27 June, 2008

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Rubber Doll
Polite businesswoman by day, international fetish icon by night

**A friend of ours has really taken off for fetish parties and shows.  I love her style and creativity.  What is even better, she is a real sweety and total deserving of the attention.  It is always great to see nice hard working people make it.

Autograph Pictures

27 June, 2008

Current Mood: Cool emoticon Cool

I posted this in my message system, but it has been have some rough bumps. =(

When we got our new photo printer, we did some testers……we don’t have many left but if you would like an autographed picture, leave me an message with your email and I will contact you asking for the name and address that you want it sent to.

Satisfied

Babble & Politics

27 June, 2008

Some of my muscles are feeling a little better.  My ass and thigh muscles still hurt, then my trainer worked out my arms today…..so I bet I’ll be feeling them tomorrow.  That is ok, my trainer spent most of the time laughing at me as I winced to move around…..lol

It was cool this morning, but you could feel it warming up.  My browser weather add on is saying it is 87 degrees…suppose to hit 100 tomorrow, the record for this date is 95…not fun, without air.  =(

I got some work done today, not as much as I needed to do.  I may do some tonight, not sure.  I have a bunch of pictures that I want to edit from the park we went to the other day.   Either way, I do have to get some work taken care of this weekend since payroll will need to be ordered Monday night.

I kind of want to go downstairs and kind of don’t.  Uphere is it a little warmer, but you get some sun and the fact that starting tomorrow we will be downstairs for the weekend due to the heat.

My mom called yesterday to chat and say hi.  =)  But then she had to rub in my face that she has lost more weight….meanie….lol

Clinton barbs resonate among working women

 Gatta, of Rutgers, thinks one very positive thing to come from Clinton’s campaign is that working women saw that the kind of things they experience in the workplace — whether it is overtly sexist jokes or more subtle barbs — are also experienced even by a woman at the highest career levels.

“I think women related to Hillary on that, that in their own lives they’ve experienced different degrees of sexism,” she said.

Similarly, if a woman can rise as high in her career as Callan and still find her appearance being discussed, it resonates with working women who face similar issues in their own jobs, Gatta says.

The days when women were routinely called derogatory names or overtly denied promotions because of their gender are largely over, and women now enjoy more protection from discrimination in the workplace.

Still, Gatta thinks Clinton’s campaign highlighted the more subtle ways in which women are undermined in the workplace. For example, Clinton was often referred to by her first, rather than her last, name — the same thing that often happened to Carly Fiorina during her tumultuous tenure as head of Hewlett-Packard. Gatta, who has the same experience herself sometimes, thinks that can be a way of taking a woman less seriously.

**Maybe with this campaign younger women will finally start to be able to see that sexism still exists and it effects them.  Many of this generation of women take it for grant how far we have come, but don’t seem to see that there is still so much farther we need to go for true equality.

Is media skewering badly behaved female stars?

But Negra said the coverage of women is more judgmental, casting wayward female celebrities as “cautionary tales.” She said coverage of female celebs is less likely to celebrate a troubled star’s triumphant comeback, the way Downey has been lauded for “Iron Man” or Owen Wilson has been shown returning to work after a reported suicide attempt.

“We seem to have a lot more fixed ideas about what women’s lives should be like than we do of men,” she said.

“When we use female celebrities this way, we see them failing and struggling, they serve as proof that for women the work-life balance is impossible. Can you have it all? The answer these stories give again and again is ‘absolutely not.”’

**More on sexism in the media and society.  As far as I’m concerned people enjoy seeing women brought down.  Because it enforces the culture that women shouldn’t want it all and shouldn’t put themselves higher then men.  They aren’t suppose to be to have ambition or success….that is a “man’s” place.   Heaven forbid if a woman doesn’t stay in the kitchen and make babies.

Now I sure in hell don’t care of the Paris Hiltons and Spears, they totally push feminism back.  But the gossip feeding public loves to tear women down….they barely touched on men when they screw up.

Supreme Court Shoots Down D.C. Gun Ban

Writing for the 5-4 majority, Justice Antonin Scalia said that the Constitution protects an individual’s right to keep and carry a gun. The decision will affect gun control laws across the country.

“We hold that the District’s ban on handgun possession in the home violated the Second Amendment, as does its prohibition against rendering any lawful firearm in the home operable for the purpose of immediate self-defense.”

He addressed the “problem of handgun violence” by saying there are a “variety of tools” such as “measures regulating handguns” available. But he said that the “enshrinement of constitutional rights necessarily takes certain policy choices off the table,” which includes measures such as an “absolute prohibition of handguns.”

**This does not surprise me.  Absolute prohibition of handguns never seem like it would hold up…..but they have stated that measure regulating handguns as a tool for the problem of violence.

Now I firmly believe in the right to own a REASONABLE gun/rifle.  I do not believe in the right for everyone to own a frigging AK-47….that is nuts.  That is not for self-defense and that is not of hunting.  Unless you are a collector that has had a background check and mental evaluation….you shouldn’t own one. Which brings up something I do believe in, background checks with waiting periods, and mental evaluations (within reason…nothing way out there).  Things within reason.

I also believe in gun education and handling.  To me, there is no issue in families to raise their kids with guns if they teach responsible handling.  And many families that grew up with them usually do.  It has been the right of passage for many generations in families to teach the kids how to hunt.

John Roberts’ Favor To Obama

It’s still too early to judge Roberts’s tenure, but it seems increasingly clear that liberals dodged a bullet when President Bush nominated him to be chief justice. Instead of siding with conservative extremists like Clarence Thomas, who are eager to press the limits of the so-called Constitution in Exile, resurrecting limits on federal power whenever possible, Roberts prefers narrow opinions that can attract support from the center. Liberals ought to applaud this instinct because, even if Barack Obama gets to appoint the next justice or two, it’s the only thing standing between them and a Court eager to roll back progressive reforms.

Why was Roberts successful in uniting the Court this year? Part of the reason, as Orin Kerr of George Washington University recently observed, is that he has done exactly what he said he would do in 2006: namely, convince moderate liberals and conservatives that unanimity is in their interest. In particular, Roberts has been more willing than his predecessor to assign plurality (rather than majority) opinions. In these cases, Roberts begins with the three center-right conservatives (himself, Anthony Kennedy, and Samuel Alito) and tries to attract liberal justices to a narrowly reasoned decision, while letting the hard-line conservatives (Thomas and Antonin Scalia) write separate, more extreme concurrences. In cases with no majority opinion, the narrowest opinion for the winning side has to be followed as if it were the majority opinion. Roberts has followed this strategy–finding a “sweet spot,” as Kerr puts it, by “aiming toward the middle”–in the recent 7-2 and 6-3 cases upholding lethal injections and voter ID requirements. In both cases, the Court issued a moderately conservative controlling opinion joined by one or two liberal justices, followed by more extreme concurrences by Scalia and Thomas. In general, Roberts was willing to trade a slight decline in fully unanimous opinions without dissenting votes (30 percent this term, as opposed to 38 percent last term) for a dramatic decline in polarized 5-4 splits. And a mark of his success is that he voted with the majority in 90 percent of the cases - more frequently than any other justice.

Roberts has also promoted unity by encouraging the Court to hear more business cases, in which the justices tend not to divide along ideological lines. Roberts told me that unanimity in less high-profile cases could promote “a culture and an ethos that says, ‘It’s good when we’re all together,’” and that’s exactly what the business cases–which represent about 45 percent of the court’s docket this year–have achieved. 

**I love to read things about the Supreme Court.  Even though a huge amount of everyday Americans don’t give them a second thought, they really do effect our everyday lives.  And I really wish more people would care and really take more interest in it.

This article was interesting in that it seems that Roberts is trying more for the center then down partisan thinking.  Which seems to give the impression that both sides will be given more thought.  We will see.

 

 Neighborhood Trail 3

 

Ouch!

26 June, 2008

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Ok, just one quick whine…..my muscles hurt!  Especially my ass…..2 & half hours on trails on top of a workout that focused on my legs yesterday did it.  I now smell of bengay….

Neighborhood Trail 6

Nothing Much

24 June, 2008

Well, they changed the temp for Saturday…it is no long 100, it is now 96……lol  It was really nice out, but the normal chilly in the house.  Tomorrow will be the last day for that….then the heat hits…icks

I did good on the treadmill today, a hell lot better then last Tuesday, thankfully.  I haven’t tried on my old pants in while….guess what?  I was able fit them!  It has been about year since I was able to fit them…they are still tight as hell, but I can get into them and zip them up.  Since I can’t seem to see the difference in the mirrow, this makes me happy as hell.  Now I don’t have to worry about buying pants bigger then I wanted……just need to lose 5 more fat pounds and I’ll be to actually move around in my pants without a struggle…grin  Need a little less jiggle over the waistband.

Florida to buy ‘missing link’ of Everglades for $1.7 billion

**It is about time that the state took the Everglades serious.  But the Crist hasn’t seem like other governors.

Teaching Not Preaching In CA Bible Belt

**I don’t believe in preaching in school, but I believe in education.  And in today’s world, this kind of education is needed.  Teach people about the different religions.  It would go a long way to promoting interculture understandings.

States Shun Funds For Abstinence Education

**ABOUT TIME!!!

Obama Says Dobson “Making Stuff Up”

The Rev. Kirbyjon Caldwell, a Methodist pastor from Texas and longtime supporter of President Bush who has endorsed Obama, said Tuesday that he belongs to a group of religious leaders who are working independently of Obama’s campaign and launching a Web site to counter Dobson at www.jamesdobsondoesntspeakforme.com

**I think this is going to totally back fire on Dobson….grin

The Note: Black Arts

**This just backs up the previous.

Audit: DOJ Played Politics, Broke Law in Hiring 

**You know that even through this just confirms everything that we knew about this piece of shit administration and their cronies, this just pisses me off even more…..gggrrr

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Saying Hi!

23 June, 2008

Current Mood: Chilling emoticon Chilling

Alright, I’ve been horrible on updating here.  I know I update at least every 3 days, but I hate that.

Well let me update you on my workouts.  My trainer really worked my legs last Wednesday and I was feeling pain in my ass and back thigh muscles until Saturday.  Then my arms started hurting from Friday’s work just because my ass and thigh muscles were no longer hurting.  My arms were finally starting to feel normal yesterday and then I worked them out more today…more on the chest area, Fridays are the back.  Tomorrow is my cardo, 30 min on the hated treadmill.

Amazingly, even though I didn’t feel well enough for my walks this weekend, I lost the pound that I needed to lost by this Friday…….so now I need to lose another pound…lol  Keep your fingers crossed for me.

As I look at my space around my desk…I’m disappointed.  It is a mess and I hate messes, but haven’t felt like dealing with it…so sad.

Mom sent me pictures of the kids today on my phone.  My nieces were on rollerskates and my nephew was on a skateboard. I love seeing them staying active outside.   I don’t want them to have the weight and heart issues that are in our family.  They have enough of their own.

Now do you want to hear something screwy….Saturday we have beautiful comfortable weather, we loved how it got the right temp for the night while we had the window open and then it got chilly Sunday.  Today was ok outside, but left it chilly in the house…..but we are suppose to hit 90s Friday and a 100 Saturday!!!  ICKS!  I only want low to mid 80s!  We are so going to be sweating!  We are going to have to put both fans and our laptops downstairs and set up for those days.  With global warming, they really need to make AC standard.

We picked up the The Bucket List today.  That was a great movie, laughed our asses off and of course, I cried my eyes out at the end.

Got interrupted during it by a young cat in our backyard, that got Reggie’s attention.  Torn is trying to scare it out of our yard and to discourage it from coming back because of ours…..but it was so damn cute, had unusual markings,  and looked so soft, he was still a kitten.  So of course, I caught him and petted him very quickly, got a purr out of him and gave him to Torn.  As he gives me a dirty look………what can I say, I can’t resist cats….I love them.  And I want a kitten damn it!  =)

Religious Americans: My faith isn’t the only way

Nearly across the board, the majority of religious Americans believe many religions can lead to eternal life: mainline Protestants (83 percent), members of historic black Protestant churches (59 percent), Roman Catholics (79 percent), Jews (82 percent) and Muslims (56 percent).

By similar margins, people in those faith groups believe in multiple interpretations of their own traditions’ teachings. Yet 44 percent of the religiously affiliated also said their religion should preserve its traditional beliefs and practices.

“What most people are saying is, ‘Hey, we don’t have a hammer-lock on God or salvation, and God’s bigger than us and we should respect that and respect other people,’” said the Rev. Tom Reese, a senior fellow at the Woodstock Theological Center at Georgetown University.

**This is encouraging for the spreading of tolerance.

Comics Remember George Carlin

**I know that he was old….but he always seemed young with his attitude and observations.  =(  So I couldn’t believe it when Torn told me that he was died.

Imus Makes Questionable Race Comments Again

**This guy is an idiot!  You can also add the following guy to the moron list :

Dobson to Attack Obama Tuesday for Distorting the Bible, Having a “Fruitcake” Interpretation of the Constitution

**Dobson is one of the worst of the right wing bible nuts.

L.A. seeing more people living out of their cars

**This is just sad.  =(

Neighborhood Trail 1

Current Mood: Sickly emoticon Sickly

I’m just not feeling too well.  I don’t know why.  I started off ok this morning, but when we were headed to REI I started to feel nauseated.  Now I get motion sickness, but this is only 30-45 min so as long as I’m sitting in the front facing forward I’m all good.  But I was feeling as if I was getting the beginning of a headache/migraine.  I haven’t had a migraine in years and usually my headaches are from dyration or sinus, but they don’t make me sick.

I took it easy when we were at REI, spent some money.  =) We are trying to pick up little things here and there.  Part of the issue is for some of it, we are not sure what to get…such as what cooking things…  There is so many different things and so much different info….it is mind boggling.

Then we went on to Torrid, about the only woman’s store that I can find stylish shirts that fit.  My poor husband, I would not normally bring him….I usually buy clothes, take them home, try them on to show him and return them if they aren’t to our agreement.  It helps to have someone who isn’t trying to sell something to you and wants you to look good for opinions.  =)  But the store is 30-45 min away.  So he brings his iPod, watches a movie and sits on the bench in the store and I try to find things as quickly as possible to try on for him to give his opinion.

By the time we left, I thought I was doing ok, but a few miles from home….yuck.  I had to laydown for a little bit and cover my eyes.  I feel somewhat better, but not fully well.  I didn’t even go tanning today or for my walk….which sucks.   I love going for my walks.  I’m debating on taking a tyenol pm to help me get over this and I don’t care to take those, gives me that drugged feeling in the morning.

I pretty much spent my day playing catch up on work.  I had gotten busy yesterday so got none of my work done.  I still need to put our laundry away….probably work on that tomorrow and try to finish this mess around my desk that I almost had done Thrusday before bed.  Getting my nails done Friday really slowed me down…..but they were really needed.

I had a bunch of news stories that I wanted to rant and rave about….but I don’t feel well enough for them.  =(

White Rose

So-So

17 June, 2008

Current Mood: Sad emoticon Sad

I sucked on the treadmill today. I went to a different one so I could see the TV better when I’m running, because I moving around too much to read and the machine felt totally off. So it sucked. =( I’ll pay for it tomorrow….it is work the legs day with my trainer.

Felt off the rest of the day. Doesn’t help that it stayed pretty overcast and chiller then the last few days.

It was great to see the Celtics win! I really wanted them to win and in Boston, even though I hated seeing them lose in LA.

But that wasn’t as enjoyable as it should’ve been. My sister called and one of my nephews is in the hospital. They don’t know what is wrong except that the ER think it is his brain, they have him on a breathing machine and the CAT scan didn’t show anything so he was going for a MRI. He had headaches last night and got sick today and was glassy in the eyes….then the hospital was like you need to get your husband here. That is not a normal thing….. =( So my thoughts have been with her and the family.

White Rose

Our hanging plant

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